Immature Relationship
Immature relationships are usually ones that feel difficult or forced. If you feel that you are working way too hard to make a relationship work then you are probably in an immature relationship.
Being together isn’t just about loving someone but about making that person feel loved, appreciated and safe to be who they are. Feeling insecure about your relationship might mean that the relationship is showing some signs of immaturity.
You want your partner to change
The need that your partner should change is very immature an approach. This shows lack of acceptance of others for who and what they are. If you don’t like your partner the way they are, then maybe you should find someone you do like.
Not sharing important issues when they arise
If you can’t express what you want or need in a relationship without it resulting into a fight or keeping inside for weeks on end until it becomes a larger problem, then there is a serious breakdown in the relationship. People in mature relationships discuss their problems or issues as they come up.
There is no future with your partner
If you can’t see yourself with your partner ten years from now, then what are you doing in that relationship? If you are out to just have some fun that’s perfectly fine, but mature relationships are in it for the long haul. If you or your partner can’t see a future together then maybe there isn’t one to see.
You are not working as a team
Relationship is a team effort, that’s why I call it WELATIONSHIP. You are in this together and it is you two against the world and have each others’ back. Unequal relationships where one partner does all of the heavy lifting leads to resentment and bitterness. Find someone who will work with you, who will stand back to back with you against the universe.
Not being Authentic
If you think you need to hide a part of yourself because your partner will make fun of you or not find you attractive or interesting anymore then you are in the wrong relationship. We are all different people with different interests and those interests change over time. Even if your partner isn’t into the exact same things as you, you shouldn’t have to hide them. You both should have the space to explore who you are without fear of rejection or insults.
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